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My boyfriend is no longer sexually attracted to me. what do I do?
Been together almost a year and other than the lack of sex/passion/desire part I am so in love with this man. He has been depressed but that hasn't stopped him from masterbating. I feel so inadequate as a woman and I genuinely want to fix this but how can I feel anything but frustrated when he would rather touch himself than me. I look the same I did when we met, I cater to him in ways most women would not (I pay 80 percent of the bills because I make more, I do all the cooking and cleaning as well plus I always massage him or do nice things for him) Every day that goes by that he avoids me or turns me away I feel that I lose another piece of my self esteem. When there is "evidence" he has masterbated I find myself actually jealous and resentful now! We did recently talk aboutthis and he said that he ddoesn't know why he has no desire. He said he loves me and doesn't want to lose me but has no idea what changed or how to fix it. Please help!