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Is my boyfriend even thinking of marriage?
I've been with my boyfriend a little over two years now. We were friends first and fell in love. Just like anyone we have had to really work on our communication. I honestly do love him with all my heart. Sometimes he pushes himself away and says he has this urge to be alone. This happens like twice a year. I then walk away wanting him to be happy and then he'll return to me about 3 days later and he'll be back to himself. We can have the best relationship for 6 months and this will happen out of no where. I keep thinking it's me, but I know it's not. He's been like this in his past but his sister tells me he's different with me. I forgot to mention that he is 17 years older than me. And he has been married twice before. This ruined his marriages before. I know it sounds like a setup for failure. But he is honestly my best friend. I have never been more happy with anyone else. I can talk to him about anything personal to me. I also have a daughter who is 8. He loves her and is able to provide a family environment for her. We laugh all the time and it makes me happy to take care of him. But I find that my mind is consuming of marriage... I asked him the other day if he thought he'd ever get married again and he said he didn't know, and then asked me if I would. I told him definitely yes. He said at another occasion that he is making plans for me in his future. I just wonder where is his mind and where do I fit in it? I am thinking marriage but is he even there yet?? Help! This is consuming my mind.