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My Boyfriend asked my to live with him....months later, changes his mind

Published on January 23, 2013 by forever_21

I am 21 and my boyfriend is 25, we have been together for a year and a half, and we are very much in love. About 3 months ago he asked me if I wanted to move in with him. I was slightly suprised but very happy and said yes. From that time we had been looking at apartments and studios around town and even came close to getting a place, but the price was just a bit over our bugdet. But I always stayed optimistic and thought we could try other places, even cities. Just recently he tells me that we should get our own places because he knows he needs his space at certain times....I was so confused and very sad also. I asked him if he always felt like that, and he said yes. He said he didnt "have the courage to tell me sooner because he didnt want to upset me". I was very upset and I felt very ashamed and stupid to have been, in a way, lead on. Here is my question, can I trust him still? Dont I have a right to be upset for being lead on this way? What should I do from this point in the relationship?