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MY BF WANT TO GET MARRIED BUT ......

Published on May 11, 2009 by lost

SHE WANTS ADVISE FROM ME, I AM IN A BAD RELITIONSHIP,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO TELL HER SO SHE WONT MAKE A MISTAKE....THIS GUY IS OLDER FOR 8 YEARS, SHE FEELS SOMETHING IS MISSING IN HER LIFE, SHES THE LAST ONE AND IS STILL NOT MARRIED OR WITH KIDS OF HER FAM. AND OUR FRIENDS.I TELL HER NOT TO RUSH SHES ONLY 21!!!!!!! HER FAM HAVENT MEET THE GUY BECAUSE SHES AFRAID THEY WONT LIKE HIM OR HIS LOOKS, OR THE FACT THAT HE IS OLDER, DIVORCED,AND HAS A 12 YR. OLD DAUGHTER.(THAT SHE DOESN'T LIKE AND IS JELOUSE OF..) AND FEELS THAT COULD CAUSE HER TO NOT GET MARRIED SO SHES PLANING TO KEEP IT A SECRET UNTILL .SHE FEELS THIS IS THE LAST CHANCE SHE HAS IN HER LIFE. , SHE HAS ALREADY SAID NO TO 2 OTHER GUYS.I KNOW SHES NOT IN LOVE. SHE JUST LIKES THE ATTENTION AND THE SEX....BUT LIKE I SAID THE GUY IS ASKIN HER TO GET MARRIED OVER AND OVER AND FEARS THIS WILL BE THE LAST....

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I was in a relationship for 7 months with a man that was a lot older than me. I'm twenty, he is 35. It was nice at first, the financial security, and he was great too, but most men around that age are looking for a lockdown (aka marriage) and i found him to be very clingy after awile. Men like younger women cause, well, it's a big ego boost. I realized that i'm young, in my prime and not willing to rush into anything. You got your whole life to get married sweetheart! have fun dating with no long term permenent attachments untill YOUR ready. Do not let any man pressure you! hope this helps.

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