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My best friend of 2 years told me that he was "attracted " to me right before he left Canada.what should i do?
This guy was on the same floor as me in college residence.So we have known each other for about 2 years.Two weeks ago,he decides to confess to me that he has been attracted to me since we met - about an hour before he catches his plane(to Trinidad and Tobago- where hes from).The reason for him leaving is because he is really home sick and decided to finish the last 2 months of his program in Trinidad and Tobago.John( not his real name) also told me that all of his family knew that he had liked me- and of course i had no clue, even though i would talk to his mother and the rest of the family too.John also wont be returning back to Canada .I also planned on going to Trinidad in the summer ( way before he said the whole attraction thing) to go visit him with some other friends.John also stated that the "attraction" wasent him liking me but it was more of a "crush" and he didnt know how else to label it. He said that he has never had a girl... as a best friend... that has known this much about him and wasen't sure if he was having a best friend thats a girl or actually being attracted to me. He said that when i come to Trinidad ( in june) that " time will tell" .My question to you is where do i begin? Do i just wait it out?.. I mean what if he hasent made up his mind when i go to Trinidad? I guess he caught me completely off guard and i never expected this.