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Married w a much younger lover
I am married but the marriage has been over for a very long time and I have been seeing a much younger guy 19 years younger he is the type who cannot talk about his feelings he uses songs to express them he actually ha wanted to be w me for four years now and since we have been seeing each other for the past four months now I feel like I have a very crazy connection w him it is the most intense connection I have ever felt w anyone ever. He is 21 and I am 40 but I do not look or act my age at all he don't care about age at all he has made that clear but I am married and I know my marriage has been over for a few years but my husband does not or he refuses to see that it is over , is this relationship w the younger guy even really able to work he is 21 and I have four kids which he has been in their lives for years as well cause this guy has been a part of our family . Or am I fooling myself by thinking we could go on to have any kind of real retaliation ship .we have tried to part our own ways but we get not even a full day apart before he is calling me to check in and make sure I am ok . Please I just don't know if we would be able to be together since the age difference and he is unable to talk about his feelings .