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Married and in love with another

Published on July 4, 2012 by lindseygem

Hi,I'm 22 and I'm married to a 29 year old guy for 2 years,our marriage is a complete disaster.But lately I fell in love with a guy twice my age.I have religious beliefs and I feel confused.I don't know what to do.


Even if your marriage is a disaster, you need to follow your religious values. You'll feel a lot better if you do what you know is right, even though this older man is attractive.

What makes your marriage a disaster?

We always fight,he insults me all the time and sometimes hit.We don't even spend time together.The only time he wants me is when he wants to have sex.

It's not that the older man is attractive I just feel good with him, he cares for me,listen to me and understands me.And we have a similar personality.We like the same things we are so similar.

Well, you cannot stay with a man who hits you. Period. Get out. You cannot fix an abusive man. Your church should side with you in this matter and if it doesn't, find one that will. Even the Puritans allowed divorce for extreme cruelty, and hitting a spouse is cruel.