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Is This Love Or Lust?
I've been dating this men for over 2months...hes a nice guy in my eyes but sometimes it just seems thats he's in this realionsip for all the wrong reasons! Like for example we will be having a nice conversation anyday..talking about how much we love each other and normal everyday life things or whatever's on ouR mind we talk about it...but somehow everytime we having a real conversation about how much we love each other nd why we do...he always seems to slide the question " when we going to have sex?" like he always ask's me that and I feel sometimes thats all he wants!!! So if you cant wait for me to have sex when Im ready to have sex with you then what are you really trying to say? Dont get me wrong, im not a vIRGIN but its just that I dont open my legs for just anyone and everybody I do it when the time is right and I really do trust and love that person. So far the only thing I feel for him is that I love him,but it's hard to trust him since he has so many girls he talks to. Im just confuse..becuase im just getting the vibe that he just want me for sex, so he sweet talks his way into me until hes going to get it...and im not giving nothing until Im sure of who he really is. Finally another thing is that when were in the the room together and were kissing, he's trying to unzip my pants or ( turn me on ) when I say No i dont want to have sex he gets like very mAD! He will be mad for like serval days.....isnt that strange..? To me it seems like he aint never had a gf or somthing or maybe he's just always horny?
Idk so thats why im here for help..........! So Please tell me does he really do love me or is this just lust?