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lost sexual desire after birth

Published on April 25, 2013 by rayannchick

i gave birth. was very sexual for first month or two with the babys daddy. Then i am gisgusted with him and dont want him touching me. it discust me to look at him. I lost everything for him. all attraction. I just dont want to be touched and i dont feel sexy. whats up?


Dear Rayannchick,

There are a number of reasons this could have happened. It would be helpful if you'd let me know if something specific happened (besides the birth of your baby). How was the birth? The pregnancy? How are you feeling? New babies are very tiring for the parents. How are you feeling about your body? How is he treating you? Is it different the before? How did you feel about having sex with him before?

I'll look forward to your response and giving you some answers.

Coach Christine

How to you feel about your partner emotionally? How do you feel about yourself? My guess is there is something going on that you are not aware of. Do you have time together that is just for the two of you. Babies take up so much time and energy. Sometimes mom just doesn't have anything left. Are you nourishing yourself? With good nutritious fuel? With time alone? With creativity? There is much to talk about :-)Take really good care of yourself.