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just getting started and anxious
I met a girl at a family Christmas party. I've been friends with her family for a few years. She has a 15 month old daughter and just separated from her daughters fawther 4 motha ago. We just played with the kids at the get together well a few days later i ran into her at the store and we talked and decided to get dinner together. We went to dinner had a great time she didn't want to bring her daughter which didn't bother me if she did or didn't. Well for the next couple weeks we spend 2 or 3 nights together going on dates just spending time together. Were not having sex but one night things got kinda hot and ever since then we've been getting each other with a hug and a kiss. Well all i wanna do is spend time with her and be hers but she's scarred of getting into anything so early and barely know each other. We get along awesome her daughter has taken to me good. She makes comments after we leave each other like when you did this it touched me or I've never had someone treat me like that or think of me like you do... She's been in 2 R year relationships with alcoholics... Im just being me but i can't get her off my mind she's beautiful but im attracted to her because she's so desirable with her personality her whit her smile the way she cares about her daughter the way she gets stubborn and wants to prove people wrong shes a strong willed girl and i love all that about her... I don't know what im suppose to do i just wanna make her mine and i just keep quite and keep things going the way they are because she likes the way things are... There is one problem there is another guy... He's been a friend of hers before we met she says its never even came close to where were at but that's mostly because of his schedule but they have talked for a long time... I feel very nervous about this guy because I've waited so long for someone like her and i don't wanna loose my chance... Should i kinda force this subject and bring it up or just keep going g with the way things are and bite my tongue ?