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Ive Never Had an Orgasm!!! Sex Tips??????

Published on August 5, 2010 by twynkl_baby

I try and I dont Try but it just wont happen. My boyfriend is starting to get a little insecure abt it, bt I blame Me. Really idk whos fault it is, if its anybodys..The Sex is Good but..No Orgasm.....im starting to wonder if its just impossible for Me or Should we be Doing something Different...???

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patience is the key. it may require that you do without sex for a little longer than usual to re-sensitize the relevant parts of your anatomy - but not necessarily.

also, he should be patient in foreplay. Im not the biggest fan of oral but he needs to stimulate your clit irregularly - he can do it with his hands. alternating between heavily pressed (not too heavy), and light.. Sometimes fast and sometimes slow. he should do the same for your g-spot and forget about his own desire to ejaculate. he should zone in to your body language so he knows what makes you twitch etc and you should be relaxed yet reactive to what turns you on.

when he enters in to the main course he should prolong ejaculation. when he feels himself edging toward climax - he should consider you if you havent climaxed and wait. its not rocket science though so dont worry and nor should he. he should just be prepared to prolong his climax so you can reach yours

May be its a big lie but it seems to me that for girls sex is more than half emotional. The more you feel emotionally connected to your man, and are ready to enjoy the time with him, the easier your climax would come.

Plan an evening together but with the intent that it will be just for your satisfaction. Go out together, talk some, come home, dim the lights, let him undress your, give you massage, caress your body while kissing you, hold your close and while doing that, use his hands to rub your cli*t. Make sure to mentally immerse yourself in the moment and enjoy his hands feeling your entire body.

Well you should be so scared. Some women started to have orgasm just after they had a child.
Sure there can be a problem that you cant relax. ( some women can only have orgasm when they almost asleep because they are FULLY relaxed then.) Sure there is some exersices to strengten your libido etc. i read one good book. Although its about varying your sexual life but there is tips about orgasm and problem not having it. i suggest reading "500 Lovemaking Tips".
and of couse as others post claims with their really good tips can be absolutely right. Good luck.

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