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Is it ok for a husband to get phone porn from a female coworker or male coworkers?

Published on July 6, 2010 by justworried

He says that they are just jokes and he deletes the pictures. It is everyday that he gets porn pix on his cell.He says that he loves me but he runs to answer his phone when we are together. He doesnt let me see them either and hides the fact he gets them.

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No this definitely NOT ok and I would NOT put up with it PERIOD! I would let him know that this behavior needs to stop now! If he's not willing to put and end to it then perhaps there are other things going on behind your back as well and you may have to consider ending the marriage. Although,I will be praying for the both of you that it won't come to that. Hang in there!

It is definitely not ok for your husband to behave in this manner. Why does he think it is ok? would he be ok with you receiving it from your co-workers, I don't think so?. I also think his behavior is very questionable. If it is nothing, why is he not showing it to you and running to get it when you are together? he is behaving badly and it is up to you to stop it immediately. He needs a time out now. Otherwise, you need to make a decision about being with someone who is so disrespectful to you. I am sorry. Good luck

No, it's definitely not okay for him to do that. And the fact that he obtained this phone porn thing from a coworker makes me wonder what other unprofessional antics he's been up to at the office. You should let him know you won't tolerate this kind of foolish and immature behavior (i.e. running to answer the phone whenever the porn pics start flooding in). It's disgusting, and how do you even know that it's just porn pics? What if it's also sex texting? Why does he try to conceal the pictures from you, if it's just naked porn stars? Could it be he's receiving texts from a coworker, and trying to hide those from you as well?

It's probably a double-standard but getting porn from a lady coworker is fishy. So is running to get a hold of the phone when it chirps. However, not showing you stuff that he gets from his friends is totally acceptable. Those are private conversations. Sure, it's less than polite to hold those private chats when you're doing something together, but something about two wrongs don't make a right but three lefts do.

Absolutely not. Your husband should tell his coworkers not to send him porn. If they keep doing it, he should not take their calls. He's married.

You might want to read about emotional affairs and see if this applies.

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