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Is it Need or Love?
I have fallen in love with a girl, she tells me she loves me too. I'm trying to figure out if she is in love with me or if she thinks she loves me because she needs me. She works and is able to take care of her basic needs. I on the otherhand am lucky enough to be in a good financial position. I have been able to give her gifts and pay for trips so that she can visit her relatives at a time of need. Also, I'm assisting/mentoring her to get ahead in her career. Given all that I do, I don't want her feelings for me to because she needs me. I asked her about this and she assured me that she loves me and not that she needs me. Its hard for me to get this out of my mind, how can I make sure? She insists her feelings for me are love and genuine. Do I just stop giving any gifts or anything having to do with financially to see how she reacts? Is there anything else? I need to know if she truely loves me or if she only needs me. Btw, she is 25 and I'm 15 y.o older.