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Is it heathy for my boy friend to show no emotion?
My boyfriend insists that it's okay not to cry that his heart is calloused. He thinks this has worked for him. But is going to be 30 and hasn't had a healthy relationship. They all cheated on him. I truely love him, but feel emotionally neglected and his sarcasm is hurtful. I told him its unhealthy not to express emotions. And he thinks it's worked for him so far. At first he did cry. He was sensitive and loveing, thoughtful. I think his "calloused" heart is an excuse to play the victim. He won't budge on the matter insisting that not showing emotion or crying when your sad is a healthy way of coping. Leaving me to feel emotionally neglected. How can I show him. Is there anything I can do? He reads the emails sent out daily so I hope something other than me "telling him what's wrong with him" can make him see. He can loose me, friendship now relationship for 10 years if he can't stop the sarcasm and stop the excuses. I've told him. I've been through things horror movies are made of raped kidnapped but still I am not cold I cry and share how I feel. How does he think he is okay that this way of not feeling is. Okay? That even though he could loose me over it. It's okay to be so cold. Please help me show him it's not a healthy way to live or to have a healthy relationship. Thank you.