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is this normal?

Published on October 20, 2013 by mammalicious

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now . He is always so touchy about anything homosexual. The other night we were in the swing of things and he took my toy out and I thought he was goin to use it on me but instead he used it on his self? Caught me off gaurd . I can't stop thinking about the situation. But don't know what to say ? Is this a normal curious thing? How do I talk to him about it?

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well, it's indeed a little strange, but i think the best thing to to do is talk about it openly and clear things out!

Its your right as his partner to be concerned and to talk to him about this. So I would do just that. If he's defensive then there could be an underlying issue.

You need to ask him about it in a non-confrontational way. "Are you curious about trying something?" "Do you like that?" "Do you want me to do that to you?" Personally, there is nothing wrong for exploring. Try not to jump to conclusions either. Whatever he did, don't think to extremes. Take it as a compliment too... he is suddenly comfortable enough with you to show more of himself to you! But yes, talk to him.

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