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Is it normal
Is it normal....
I am a very happily married woman to a man who would is very understanding, patient and would do anything for me or never stand in my way so I can do the things I want to do.
He is laid back and happy doing whatever I would like to do or is also content doing nothing at all. He is easy to please and does not want for much. Ok - no problem so far. Oh yeah - he also makes sure that I am happy in the bedroom. It is not like I seek out attention from others but the last year or so it seems to find me and I like it. Maybe too much. I have never been unfaithful sexually but I am starting to feel I am emotionally straying. If that makes any sense at all. As far as I know I am not looking for anything else but what I have. Happily married with two grown kids in university who seem to have their feet on the ground. We are in the prime of our lives.
So once a month I go visit my Dad who is 86 and we go to a community dance. My husband does not go because he has to work. There is a gentleman there that asks me to dance an aweful lot. He is married as well and it is not like we are sneaking around or hiding it. It is a small community and everyone knows everyone. But...his wife is not there and neither is my husband. Would we do it if they were there - not likely. Well...I like the attention and look forward to the next dance. But that is all - no sexual attraction at all, just attention. I find myself thinking about him throughout the month. This is what confuses the heck out of me and bothers me. As much as I like the warm fuzzy feeling I get with the attention I feel guilt riden because I truly love my husband with all my heart and look forward to growing old with him but still do not want to give up my time at the dance. What is happening? Is it ok? This message may seem alittle jumbled because I have so many thoughts that bounce back and forth. Anyways, what can you tell me.