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Is he my boyfriend?
I've been dating this guy, although most of the relationship has been long distance. He has just managed to get a secondment to be with me in 4 months, although the job opportunity would also be good career move for him too.
I asked him about our status twice now but I guess what I really wanted to know was our label. I got the same comclusion..We established we are exclusive (we would both say we are unavailable) and he reminded me is moving halfway across the world to be with me. However, I can't seem to get the relationship label still. I don't know if he is assuming we are boyfriend/girlfriend, or if his actions mean I shouldn't be hung up on labels, or if he actually doesn't see us as bf/gf which is why he hasn't ever mentioned it.
I get asked if I have a bf quite often and I feel inclined to say 'no, but I'm seeing someone'.. but I do wonder if I am supposed to be answering 'yes', or something else.