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Is he looking for something serious?

Published on June 9, 2013 by justmel

About a month ago this guy started following me on Instagram. I added him because he looked familiar, thought maybe I had, had him in one of my classes. We talked through comments maybe once or twice and never thought anything of him. Last week when I was at a bar with a friend this guy stopped and smiled at me but then continued on walking. 5 minutes later writes a comment on my Intagram saying he had seen me at the bar I was at (turns out the guy that stopped and smiled was him but since I didn't smile back he thought I wasn't interested.) We exchanged numbers and have been talking ever since. Yesterday we went out on our first date. We went to the movie theaters and chilled by a view to continue on talking. We kissed and I felt so comfortable with him, like I had known him for a really long time and to my surprise he told me he felt the same way too. As we continued talking, he told me he has only had 2 gfs in his life (he's 26) and the last time he dated someone was few months back. When I asked him why he said, "I haven't had time, I work and my basketball league keeps me busy." Throughout the night he opened his car door for me, the doors, paid for everything and was a complete gentleman. When he drove me to my car he said, "I'm going to miss you since I probably won't see you for a while." His work schedule and mine don't mix well together and the only day I have off is when he's working his second job. He asked me when he would see me again and I told him whenever he had time to let me know, he said okay. I feel that even though our work schedules are hard, if he's interested he'll make an effort. I guess what I want to know is, from what he has said and his actions, is it possible that he's looking for a relationship or just a fling?