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Internet Pornography While In A Committed Relationship
I have recently told my boyfriend of 3 years, especially after infidelity, that if he doesn't feel comfortable looking at something on the internet when I am there and wants to be alone to look at it--then it's cheating. I know in the past he's viewed internet pornography and naked women online, and I feel that it is a ridiculous intrusion on our relationship. It is an insult and deceitful if done behind my back. He says that "every man does it" and I argue with that not every man is in a committed relationship and there is no need to turn outward to fantasize about other women because it is wrong. I also view it as cheating now, especially after being cheated on. He claims to have stopped looking for me, but I want him to stop for himself and our relationship. How can I make him understand that it's completely unacceptable in our relationship? and most of all that it is WRONG? Since he says he's stopped looking at it, I just want him to understand that it is wrong and that he is to not look at it, without me, permanently. How would you make your partner understand?