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I'm only 20, but searching for THE 1. How can I change this?

Published on June 1, 2012 by saruru92

I'm 20 years old, and all my friends are telling me to stop thinking like I wanna settle down and find the one. Honestly, deep in my heart every time I meet a new guy I think he might be. But that's not bad, isn't it?
They say I have to live my life and experience things, instead of thinking about my future husband.. (I've had 2 bfs so far..)
Another problem is that I never ever dated with more than one person at the same time.. I just can't imagine it.. How can I manage to date with more than 1 guy at a time and where can I "pick" those guys?

Thank you for your answers~ 


It seems you are an old soul. Which basically means you are looking for your true soulmate. Unfortunately, you are taking the approach that whom ever is there is "the One" which will end in break ups or in a divorce in the future. Because of your age I would recommend as your friends have and just date. Don't expect anything from anyone for a while. Give yourself a goal whether it is a year or 6 months and re-evalute your situation. It is also helpful to write down what you truly look for in a guy, that way when a guy comes up to you and he doesn't measure up to what you think you want you can move on. Now I do not mean physically I mean emotionally and mentally! Once you have made a list you can start to realize your deal breakers. We have many soul mates out there for each of us there isn't just one particular person that we spend our whole lives searching for. So remember that!