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im in love with two men. help!
basically i was with this guy for a while, about 7 months, about my average relationship length tbh, but now we are broken up, and im with someone else. my new guy is great, hes got a great personality, i fancy the pants off him, job, car, flat , my folks love him, etc, etc. good on paper. the problem is that i cant stop thinking about my ex. i dont want him back because he's got no job, no career prospects, and he was heavily dependant on me when we were dating. he was also a total girl in the way he thought, which meant we were like best best friends who f**ked, and (except for one small problem, we did have good sex). my ex was also the perfect boyfriend, backrubs, flower etc etc., while my new boyfriend is less that perfect, but tries as hard as he can, according to him. i guess my problem is that im still in love with my ex, even though i dont want to be. but im scared that if i leave my boyfriend for my ex, il realise it was just a case of grass is greener syndrome. i broke up with my man once already and we got back together 2 days later. he had been being quite neglectful and said he would change but he hasnt, he just doesnt have that much time for me, and he thinks i needy. we fight all the time. am i just stringing guy number one along because im afraid its not going t ork with guy number two? ive got myself in a real pickle. thoughts anyone?