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I'm falling in love with my roommate! Help!
Hi so I'm a guy that recently had a new roommate move into my condo that is female. This is the first time that I have ever lived with a female that I'm not having sex with, so this is very new and exciting for me. I am a type of guy who for many years was looking to find someone to fall in love with and get married. However my dating experiences over the last few years have left me frustrated and feeling a little hopeless. So I decided to stop dating for a while just to do the things that I want to do and fun with my life. Well I haven't dated in a couple of months and I just had this beautiful girl move in with me. We are both around the same age, I'm 31 and she is 32. We both have so much in common and spend a lot of time together and seem to want the same things in life pretty much. But here's the problem, she hasn't even been living with me for a week! And already I'm starting to have feelings for her. I am the type of guy likes to fall hard in love and I want all the passion and lust that goes into a relationship with the heat turned all the way up. I've already seen signs that I'm falling for her though. Like I can't wait to get up in the morning so I can see her in the kitchen getting ready for work, I think about her when I'm at work, wondering what it is today that I could do for her. She's not perfect but I think she is the most wonderful compatable girl I've met in years, and I'm so surprised because she's the kind of girl I would not normally go for. She's single and hasn't been in a relationship for a long time either. My plan for the near future is just to continue building our friendship and let things happen naturally if anything was to happen at all. It already hurts to think about her hooking up with another guy though, and I know that it could happen and I've already accepted that that is a possibility. I really don't feel like dating other girls right now, but does anybody think its a good idea to do that? I just hate playing games though. I know I can't just come out and tell her that I'm starting to have feelings for her, I know that it might scare her if I did that, and then it would make things awkward. I need advice on this ladies and gentlemen, I just don't want to screw things up and ruin a chance for me to finally find somebody.