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I'm confused on a new guy I just met
I met a guy Saturday night, we hit it off and were dancing and kissing the rest of the night. He took my number as I left the club first and he was going to come over after he left. But he decided to stay with his friend. Sunday, I went to brunch with my friends and I texted him late. We talked /sexted for 2 hours. Saying things like how he wants to take me out before we got 'super intimate' and he thought it was hot how open I was being with him. At work on Monday, he texted me to see how I was feeling (from being drunk the following day) and again we talked for a bit. He asked me what I was doing later, then invited himself over to hang/sleep. He still didn't want to have sex, just fool around a little bit.
He did come over, and we had a great time. Talked, fooled around, and he even sang me 'Happy Birthday' at midnight. In the morning we fooled around some more before we had to get up to go to work. we walked out together and he gave me a kiss when we went our separate ways. That night he mentioned two things, 1. he was leaving for london next week for work. And 2, he wanted to come over again.
Now what I'm confused about is I've barely heard from him this week. I messaged him twice, and he would respond but didn't try to put effort towards the conversation. I asked him when he was leaving for London, he said Tuesday night. Then wrote "pretty slammed between now and then tho..."
How should I handle this? Is it over? Is he not interested?