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I'm 19 years old. My mother's husband is acting strange. We need help.
This isn't my husband, it's my mother's husband. She has been calling me every day telling me what has been going on in her marriage hoping she could get advice or some sort of input. I asked for her permission to put this story up and she approved and will appreciate any advice/similar stories and the outcomes.
Mother: "It was about a year and a half ago, maybe more; he would grab his phone occasionally and go either into the bathroom where he could shut and lock the door. He use to never take the phone with him. Finally I followed him to the back computer room and asked him for the phone. With an angry face he handed it to me and a woman had sent him a picture of her breasts. There will be times where he will ignore me for a week, maybe two weeks. Then everything goes back to normal. About two weeks ago, I had to work over the weekend. His job lets him have the weekends off. This gut feeling told me to look in the recycle been of his computer and I had found porn. I looked at the properties on it and it had been watched/downloaded at around 8am that Sunday morning I had left. A couple days ago, I woke up at 5:30am to grab a cup of coffee and get ready for work, I couldn't find my husband anywhere in the house. I went out on the back porch and he's masturbating. When we watch Television and an attractive woman comes up on the screen, he'll put his hands in his pants right in front of me. I took my daughter's advice, sat him down last night and I calmly asked him; "What was going through your mind when I caught you on the back porch?" He responded very upsettingly with "Shocked.. Angry." Then I asked "What about the porn, what is the reason behind looking at the porn?" He responded with "Nothing." I asked him everything I could possibly ask: Is our marriage safe, Is there anything you are lacking in sex, are you lacking sex, is there another woman, is there something I'm not doing right for you. Everything I asked was followed by the answer "No". Until I asked him "Then, why are you doing these things?" That's when he says nothing."
She also says that he's been avoiding her. She use to lay out his clothes every morning for work and make coffee for him. Cook him dinner. I'm her daughter, I witnessed this. He always gave her a kiss and said "Thank you" but had stopped thanking her for the things that she does for him. He also stopped letting her do those things for him. He's just a stiff on the couch. No "I love you's" and is not flirtatious with her but with other women. He quit having sex with her. He won't even try.