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I want to recover from my total affair

Published on January 13, 2013 by diesel sled

I was in a 2 year total affair. It ended 3 years ago and my wife and I have put back together our family and marriage, however, I still feel I haven't "recovered" from it. Still deal with emotional baggage, longing, loneliness, etc.

Much of the books and reading material I have been able to find address "affair recovery" from the stand point of the person who what cheated on, which I understand, but I have not been able to find a good resource on how I can deal with and heal from my side of the affair.

Any information would be much appreciated and needed.


You best bet now will be to go beyond book self therapy and actually speak to a professional. Be honest with your wife about what you're feeling and express to her that going to counseling will help in continuing your marriage on the right recovery track. Both of you can't heal if you're not getting proper help for your past indiscretion. Act sooner rather than later.