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I want to have sex more with my boyfriend, what do I do?
I've been with my boyfriend for about five years and I think we will be together for much longer. At the moment I am terribly frustrated (sexually) and don't know what to do. He cuddles with me, joke around a lot and have fun together (we'll have some moments together that he calls 'Girlfriend Harassment Time" in which he'll grope/man-handle me or throw me on the bed and tickle me) so I don't think he doesn't love me anymore or doesn't find me attractive. He just doesn't have sex with me as much anymore.
He gets insanely jealous if anyone looks at me in any kind of sexual way and I've seen him glare at people if they dare check me out. He is very possessive (which I'm more than okay with), and he'll grab or slap my butt when no ones looking. I'm a very sexual person. The kind where when we just had sex I would like another go right then and there. What's frustrating is that my boyfriend is pretty much the opposite. He's content with having sex once every two weeks and sometimes monthly. I don't know what to do. I don't think he finds me unattractive, and I'm not sure what I can do to make him want me enough to have mind blowing sex with me.
At the moment I feel unloved, unsatisfied and ugly because I'm not getting enough sex from him like I would like him to have. I love him so much, but this makes me feel like our relationship is getting rocky and i'm scared to lose him. He's a great guy and I want to be with him for the rest of my life, I just can't handle not having enough sex. It's putting me on edge right now. What can I do?