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I need personal help?

Published on October 15, 2013 by cab4you

So I just joined this site, this is my first post. I'm not sure how to explain this. Basically, I have a big personal problem. I have screwed over many friends. I cheated on my ex (this was a long time ago, and not the cause of our breakup). I started talking to a good friend of mines girlfriend after they broke up. I hooked up with my best friend's girlfriend. I didn't tell them. I was scared to face the truth and I didn't have the guts. All three occasions were over the course of a fair amount of time. However, the last one has hit me hard ( I know you're thinking, so then why did you do it? Well I'm wondering the same thing). I have listed all three to show this is an ongoing problem and I want/need to fix it. I know I'm a crappy person. I know I'm a terrible person, and that I can't be trusted. I know I'm every curse word in the book. And I know I have hurt many feelings. This is why I'm here. I want to fix this persistent problem. I'm stubborn, and I'm selfish. I think my selfishness is a huge part of the problem. I don't want to see a counselor or a psychiatrist. I'm not here to get flamed, but to seek genuine advice. Can anyone provide any insight on this personal issue of mine? And on how to go about fixing it and where to start?


I know you don’t want to hear it, but seeing a counselor might be a good idea. They could give you consistent attention and advice. But in the meantime, I think you need to look deep inside yourself, and figure out why you go through with these self-destructive acts. Are you unhappy with yourself? Is there something that you are trying to overcome? What is it that keeps getting in the way of you living a happy, productive, positive life? You seem pretty self-aware, but now you need to dig deeper and figure out the cause of this behavior. Good luck.