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I need to know if I am settling or just being too picky!

Published on May 8, 2010 by lovejones3

I have been dating this guy for two months and I know that he cares about me alot. He is great with my 7 year old son and has no problem telling me how he feels about me. He always wants to spend time with me and has no problem putting me first. The issues are that he has a lot of slow moments which is hard for me when I try to talk to him and notice a lot that he is not keeping up with just simple conversation. Also, he doesn't cook or clean, and he is not handy at all with his hands. When I need something done, I always have to call someone else to get it done. I feel like I should be able to get something done from my man. I can never tell him anything about how I feel or what I am thinking without him taking everything personal and making everything convo an arguement. Lastly, I always have to initate sex. He seems to be able to go days and probably weeks without doing anything and I am someone who likes to have sex much more than that. So what do you think? Is it me being too picky and not appreciating what he brings to the table?


The handyman issue....that may be just being picky, but if you can't talk to him about how you feel without him turning it into WWIII then how do you think you can sustain an long term relationship with this guy? Talking about feelings is important in a marriage and also difficult in the best of circumstances.