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I miss my Ex Boyfriend

Published on August 1, 2012 by jamine38

Me and my boyfriend got out of our 12 month relationship a month ago and since then, I have still been finding myself thinking about him and wanting him back in my life. My friends don't really like him much now that we're over because they didn't like how he hurt me, but I just can't stop thinking about him. He was my first love and he didn't even want to break up in the first place so I think he hates me now.. My friend doesn't think I should text him, but something in my mind says I should and I want to.. I don't know what to do. I miss him so much.

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You don't say why you two broke up, but if he was not a good person for you, you're just going to have to grieve the relationship longer. It usually takes longer than a month to get over somone, but if you contact him again, it's just going to prolong the closure. If more than one friend didn't think he was a good partner to you, listen to them. Very rarely does one end up with the first person we date for a lifetime. We all experience heartbreak. It's a part of life. Time will heal. Keep on spending time with girlfriends and doing fun activities and being good to yourself by treating yourself to bubble baths, buying yourself inexpensive jewelry,etc. and concentrating on school or work. When you get some distance from the past, you'll realize that God or fate has a better plan for you. Good luck

I can relate to this. My bf broke up with me 2 months ago. However we dated 3 years. I tried contacting him more than once and he always ignored me. I sent a final message and said i would leave him alone but i dont understand how after 3 years of dating and being best friensd how he can just not want me in his life anymore. It hurts so much. Im still having a hard time dealing with it. I miss him everyday, and honestly still cry everyday. he was my first love and i thought we would be together forever. So moving on is hard. I wouldnt contact him because if he wanted to talk he would contact you. Just give it time, all you can do. I learned that the hard way.

Im a little confused about the break up. You said he hates you because he didn't want to break up in the first place and that he hurt you. Can you explain a little more what happened then I may have a suggestion. Best thing you can do is to stay busy and do some fun things. Stay away from things that remind you of him for a week or so just til the inital hurt slows down. If you can give a little more about why you two broke up, may have some other advise. May I ask what age range you are in?

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