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I hate when my boyfriend drinks. What do I do?
We have been dating for a 1 year & 1/2 and he has always loved his alcohol. Before we met, I know he was a crazy drinker and partier, and I do give him credit for slowing down since we've met. But I have gotten worse with handling his drinking to the point where I actually feel sick when I see or know he's drinking. And he knows how I feel. He tells me he loves me all the time and I believe him but he won't change his drinking habits for me. He drinks usually about 3 days a week but when he drinks, he usually has at least 8 beers and he gets drunk. I have told him so many times how it makes me feel and he said he doesn't care and that he won't stop. I guess I just don't get how alcohol is more important to him than a happy relationship. At this point, arguing about drinking all the time has worn me down. I do see myself with him for the long run and we talk about marriage oftern, but I can't continue to feel like this. What can I do?