It sounds to me that you might have a fairly rare condition wherein you are allergic to your husbands semen. It is extremely important that you confirm this diagnosis and start treatment early as the condition tends to get worse with continued exposure. Intercourse with a non-latex condom (silicone) she provide temporary relief but if you plan a pregnancy in the future, you need to get on top of this problem now.
There are treatment centers throughout the USA if you live in the US, Google "semen allergy" and you should find a center near you.
Best of luck but you should do very well with proper care.
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