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I feel betrayed,i don't know how to deal with it.
I am facing a situation that i don't know how to handle. I love my boyfriend and i believe he loves me too,we have been together for 2 years.
2 weeks ago ,we had plans, we were going to spend the day together,however he told me that things have changed since he had to meet his best friend's ex girlfriend. For all i know,he was never friends with that girl and i couldn't understand why he had to cancel our plans for her,i asked him what was so important,he said that he just needed to talk to her,and that it was a secret(his best friend's),that he couldn't tell me.When he said that i was upset but if it was a secret,there is nothing i could do about it.
And then few days ago,my boyfriend tells me that he has something to tell me because he feels terrible about it,he confessed that he told his best friend a secret of mine(something very private)something that he had promised more than 3 times that he wont tell anyone,he said that he feels bad. Ooh i felt betrayed,i cried so much.
And i remembered how he protected his best friend's secret but he couldn't protect mine,i cried like a baby. I can in all honesty say that i am very loyal person, and that is maybe why i feel hurt this much.
I told him,that he hurt me but that it will pass.But little did i know,that i was going to feel worse later on.Everyday when i think about it,i cry,and i feel really hurt and betrayed.
How can i get past this?What if i cant get past this? We do fight like normal couples, but i have never felt like this.
How can i deal with this?Thank you