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I ended the relationship, now what?

Published on January 5, 2010 by bridgesfolly

So I finally ended the three year relationship I've been in. I'm praying I've done it for good this time. I'm devastated, depressed, crying every five minutes, and at a loss as to what to do next. I have literally NO social life because of him. He controlled everything I did and didn't approve of the people I hung out with. I work full time so it's difficult for me to meet new people, and I hate the idea of going to clubs or bars. I'd really prefer not to become a crazy cat lady, so I need help. How can I make sure I don't go crawling back to him? I miss him already and it's only been a day. How can I keep myself occupied? How can I stop myself from going crazy and eating four tubs of ice cream a day?

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Breaking up can be difficult and it sounds like it was for you. Now that you have broken up, you don't have to worry about this guy controlling your life. What do you do now? Do the things that you wanted to do but were unable to do because of your ex.

You said it's difficult to meet new people because you work full-time. Do you work with other people? Now is a good time to connect with some of your co-workers.

There are so many things that you can do. I suggest you get yourself a support system to help you work through this difficult time and move on.

The best thing you can do is get to know and love yourself like you've never done before.

LaTricia

I feel your pain... I'm going to bare with you. I've been in the exact same situation as you Werid not to long ago. Whatever you decide to do Bridgesfolly... DO NOT go back to him. After you break up with someone, it's over. Nothings never the same once you go back. Apparently, you've broken up with him for a reason. Think about it... whatever that reason is, have it haunt you in your sleep... you don't want to go back to that do you?? I got a clue he probably cheated He's nothing now, just another jerk. Now it's time to work on yourself Bridgesfolly, don't know where to begin? Start anywhere, just don't hurt yourself {{no obsessing or drinking loads of alcohol}} This is your time to shine honey, break through that little bottle he had you in. It's going to hurt and that's all I can say. Thats just the process. If you have kids, love them more. If you have a job, get another one. Don't like cats, girl get a fish. Just don't go back to him. Because once you do, he knows your vunerable, he knows your weak. Now he thinks your not going anywhere and he can do what he wants to do... you go back, he's bound to do something worse and it's going to hurt even more then it already does.

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