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I Dont know what to do from here.
I have known this guy for probably about 6 - 8 months & we just recently started talking. He had just got out of a relationship with someone & so did I. We started talking & would text nonstop & we hung out once at my house & everything went good. We had talked for probably a week or so Then I went out of town for a week for vacation we talked about how we genuinely liked each & how we both couldn't take anymore hurt & we would take things slow so there would be no doubts or worries. Well then he got quiet on me & I didn't hear for him for a day & he told me he had just been thinking a lot; before me & him started talking he had kinda been talking to someone else that he had liked before & he said he wasn't saying he didn't like me or that he didn't want to continue to see where things went he just didn't want to lead me on & wanted me to know what was going on. Well since then he's come over & we have hung out again & he will come by my work to see his father and I & he even kissed me & hugged me at work, which is unusual for him because he doesn't like to do that with his father being here. But since that day that he's told me that, he just hasn't been talkative at all & has text me if I text him but hasn't made an effort to text me first. He is trying to get a place of his own & has been trying to get some sort of visitation or custody of his 8 month old son,& he just had court for that this week. He is going to be getting to spend as much time as possible with his child the next month or so to get the baby used to him so he can have him on his own some, so I know that that's going to be what he's doing the majority of the time. When I ask him what he was wanting out of this he told me that "for the time being he needed to focus on his son & getting things straightened out; that if I felt like he was using me to not talk to him but for right now he can't commit to someone and focus on all the other stuff, he just doesn't have time right now." We have talked everyday since then except for yesterday and today; he also has not mentioned that girl anymore. I want him to have his space because I don't want to come on too strong and push him away but I don't want him to think I'm not interested either. what should I do?