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I am seeing a co-worker and everytime we have sex all physical contact stops for 1-6 weeks I'm confused?!

Published on July 8, 2010 by doodlebug

I have been seeing a co-worker (we are both married) for the past year. We have a great relationship and get a long good. Everytime we end up having sex, the next day, all physical contact stops anywhere from a 1 week to sometimes 6 weeks. Then everything starts up again. During the "non physical" time, he flirts, jokes everything but anything physical. I am so confused. We had sex last Tuesday and today is Thursday of the following week (9 days later) and there has been no physical contact again. But, a lot of flirting, joking etc. We both work in a kitchen where there are a lot of people coming and going. So I know we have to be very careful. But it is just so confusing. When I bring this up to him, he assures me everything is good and not to worry. That I am reading into things. Either, he wants sex only when he wants sex, or he feels guilty and has a "waiting" period to get over the guilt. Maybe it is neither. Any guys able to help me understand what goes through a guys mind? I am really confused. Sometimes I feel like I'm on a roller coaster with this guy. Thanks!