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How to get him to see me?

Published on January 10, 2013 by jessie2012

Long story short - I have a male friend. We used to be really close friends, until Christmas. I'm always the one asking to see him and since Xmas he's been saying he's busy when I ask. I've only asked twice since we last met up about 3 weeks ago (we were seeing each other 1-2 times a week before that!) He said he was busy before but said he would see me in the next few days... this was about a week and a half ago (I think he was waiting for me to ask again in the next few days!?) And to be honest I gave up asking him, but now I feel like I need to ask him one more time and if he says he's busy again I need to make it clear that I won't be asking again. He has text me a few times asking how I am etc. though. I'm just writing this here to get suggestions of what to say/the best way to say it because he's the kind of person who sometimes takes something completely innocent and finds it a bit aggressive/angry (maybe it's just the way I word things!) and I also don't want to sound desperate. I just want to know if he actually wants to see me again or not, but without it sounding desperate or like I'm angry he hasn't seen me for 3 weeks. I don't need anyone saying things like "he clearly doesn't want to see you" etc. because he hasn't asked to see me, because that's just the kind of person he's always been... and to be honest he probably doesn't want to, but I need to hear that from him so I'm not wondering "what if".

I know this is a bit of a silly question, but thanks anyway.

(also, we are just friends but he did tell me that he likes me and wants to see where it goes. And he knows I like him. But now I have no idea where I stand)