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How to spark intimacy?

Published on September 7, 2010 by starsaboveparis

My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months. We are also 8 months pregnant with our first child. He works all the time and we don't live together at this point in time. We use to have sex all the time but recently as I've started getting bigger and he has been working more the sexual intimacy has become sparse. He calls me sexy all the time when I tell him I'm upset about it but at the same time it's starting to wear on me. I don't really know how to spark his interest without practically having to beg. Any ideas on how to get some?


Hmm. You got pregnant the first time you had sex, or close to it. "We" are 8 months pregnant, yet you don't live together.

You've got some bigger issues here than merely sex. As a midwife and a guy, I've got to say that your BF is missing out on THE BEST SEX - EVER! What an idiot! Pregnant women are the sexiest creatures on earth! So what you are craving is REAL!

Now, as for your guy. Do you have the usual stuff worked out? Marriage or not? Being a Daddy or not? Adoption or not? Name? (First AND last). Child support? I suspect he is freeking out about his unexpected responsibilities about now... You know, sex got me into this mess... Or, he doesn't want to hurt the baby by boinking her in the head...

Just talk to him. There is a whole lot more going on than just sex...

Congrats by the way!