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How to overcome hurt feelings, due to my wife cheating ?

Published on November 24, 2012 by mario2201

I've been married for 12yrs.  I am 29 yrs old. I found-out my wife was dating her coworker. We have three children together. My wife and I are still together married,still.  I still plan on staying married with her. It's just hard to deal with the fact that she was with another man. I love her still but it's hard to trust her or at lease try to trust her. I sometimes ask myself, if staying married to her is the right thing to do..?! What keeps me holding on to my marriage is the love I have for my kids and the love I have for my wife.. I found myself mixed up with different emotions, 


i know it hurts and cant trust her anymore or try to and cz u still love her and still planing on staying married to her wont get the divorce if its not cz of her cz ur thinking of ur childrens,but dont u think that taking time for urslf away from her for a while will help u think clearly about everything??specialy that ur mixed up with different emotions?

You can make it work, but it won't be easy. Lay down some rules with her:

You will attend marriage counseling together.

Either she quits her job or he does - either way, she is to no longer work with this man.

You will do everything you can to determine WHY she cheated. If she felt some need was going unmet at home, identify it and work to satisfy that need for her.

Make clear to her that she's used her one mulligan - any more infidelity and she is history.