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how to keep a long distance relationship with my boyfriend

Published on November 3, 2010 by karmadistress

i am moving to another country,in another continent. and i am depressed over what to do, i love my boyfriend to death, and he loves me truly and we both want to marry each other, i am 16 and he is going to be 18 in 2 days, i have no idea what to do, i cry when i think how i will stay so far away from him. we are completely obsessed about each other. like chatting and emailing him will help us to communicate with each other, but its not the same, and btw my mom or dad doesnt know about him, neither do my brothers. and only his mum and sister know about our relationship, i am not in the stage to tell my mom about us, because we both are muslims and we are not suppose to keep relationships, but we are madly in love with each other. i am mentally disturbed about this but i dont show him, and i bet neither does he. its been 9 months today. he said his mum will talk with my mom after he becomes an engineer, dats like after 4-5 years, how am i suppose to not see him, its hard to spend my day without him, and i feel so alone that i have to go throught this kind of pain in this age, just because i am in love with this guy who i want to marry and have a good life, we both are very mature for our age, and we try not to let small things affect our love for eachother. we havent had sex since we both are muslims, and we decided to wait, please give me tips as to how i should mentally prepare myself for this, i am actually, it just too much stress for me. i havent had a complete, talk with him about this, and i am looking for the right time to.