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How do you deal with a rude and obnoxious mother law ?

Published on April 27, 2009 by mnstr_151

1. she drinks beer like a man and talks like one.

2. she gets drunk every night and it's revolting to be around her.

3. she doesn't know when she's crossing the line when she talks to me she is crude , disrespectful but to her if she makes a joke in bad taste (and i mean really bad taste then i'm the one with no sense of humor.

4. she likes to pick on me and calls me high maintenance . she dresses like a man smokes like a chimney and is not a classy woman . TO BE FRANK SHE IS REVOLTING WHITE TRASH !

I DONT' KNOW WHAT TO DO !ARGHHHHH

AND I KNOW SHE LIKES TO TALK BAD ABOUT ME. !

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We'll if your MIL talks bad about you, you can't do anything about it. The only way to do anything about all of this is just refuse to participate in the drama. Don't encourage other people to tell you what your MIL says about you. Don't spread gossip about her. In short, she is who she is and you can't change her. But you can change and control how you act. So, limit your time with her. Be kind. And focus your attention elsewhere, like on your marriage.

You can't change you m-i-l, and it's not your job to. It's possible she is an alcoholic, but that doesn't excuse rude behavior on her part. If she upsets you with her comments, let your husband know that you plan to limit your time around her. It's reasonable that you would, and your husband should understand. Best wishes.

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