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How do we find a 3rd...for real?
My wife and I are in a committed, loving, mature relationship. We have kids, good jobs, and are pretty happy. However, we BOTH want to bring a 3rd into our bedroom. Both of us want another woman in the picture, and have tried just about everything we can think of to do this discreetly. we're not into couples swinging, just single women, and since my wife is VERY picky about the looks of the woman, we want very much to find a way to connect with bi women who want to hook up with couples. We've been very frustrated at the non-existent responses we've had from websites like Ashley Madison and Craigslist, and because of some sensitivity with our very public jobs, can't just go hang out at swingers bars looking for unattached females. What do you suggest?