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how do shy guys ask out girls?

Published on April 20, 2009 by firewood

im a great public speaker and have no problems talking to girls. But when it comes time to talk to a girl in a "im interested in you" way, im at a loss. i can never break the barer from casual talking to letting her know i like her.


I totally understand how your feeling, just try not to think of its as a big deal. Everybody gets rejected at some point in ther lives you just have to learn how to accept it. I am not sure how old you are, but being drunk always helps. LOL

think of cute ways to tell her. slip her a note on a napkin. a little flower with a note attached "will you go out with me?" girls are suckers for the simple cute gesture and you don't have to say a word.

I know exactly where you are coming from! I have no problem being up in front of an audience or making announcements to an entire store while standing on top of the register counter because the public address system isn't working, but catch me going up to a cute girl that I only just started checking out a minute ago and I'm tongue tied. I'd say give Lyz's advice a try, but stick to what you are comfortable with. I'll at least go up to her and try to have a little dialogue, but I've got a roughly 95% failure rate with that. For me, I've accepted that I have no short game...I cannot get a woman's number to save my life...unless I can use my long game, which usually comes about through regular interaction. Think of it as pre-courting foreplay.