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How Do I Set up a Meeting With an Ex Who Moved Away?
Please Help! I can't find information about this on the internet anywhere. My ex and I broke up in Feb. We were already kind of LD when he was here in PA. He lived an hour away and we saw each other on the weekends when we could. After we broke up, he moved to MD, nearly 5 hours away. My Ex has finally contacted me after 9 months.
I've bought programs saying that the first meet up should be very brief, generally only a half hour to an hour over coffee or lunch. They also said you should leave at the climax of the date to leave him wanting more. How do I handle this situation since my ex wants to meet? Obviously, we would not meet for an hour if it is a 5 hour drive. Plus, should I offer to meet him half way or do I have him drive all the way out here? I used to stay at his place. He didn't stay at mine because I live with my Dad and my son, who he never met yet. I really don't want to be the one driving all the way out there to see him (at least not at first). He offered for me to come visit for a weekend if I wanted. Plus, seeing each other for an extended period of time could be dangerous territory (sleeping together), which I want to avoid. I am trying to play super hard to get until a relationship evolves the way I want it, on my terms. We were only together for 4 months. He said he has some things in storage up here that he has to get to one of these days and maybe we could go on a date. I made our entire conversation out to be how busy I am (which is true). I said I would have to see what I had going on around that time and let him know. I hope I handled that well...Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.