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How do I let him know I'm interested in a relationship with him without being too giving?
Lately, I've been having strong feelings towards a really good friend. We've been friends for about a year now, but this feelings just started to happen about a few months, and I really like him, and I think he does too; but I just don't know for sure. His friends tell me that he is awfully shy about women and relationships, and that he is not that experienced and he feels self-concious about it. My problem is letting him now it's safe to try something with me cause I know he's been hurt in the past, but all I really want to do is show him I care for him deeply, and at the same time; I don't want to be that straight forward. I know how much men enjoy the chase, so I don't want to kill the excitement for him either. Bottom line; I want to make him work a little for it too.