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How do I keep us both sexually pleased without sex?

Published on March 5, 2010 by itscourtlandyo

Dylan and I are absolutely perfect together. We are both Christians and we think it is wrong to have sex outside of marriage. However, we are younger and our hormones are raging. So how do I keep him and myself sexually pleased without sex? We do other things, just not full-blown sex. I just don't want us to get bored with what we are doing and feel pressured to have sex. So I want ideas to keep things new and exciting and fun without sex. Any ideas will help! Thanks!

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I don't agree with thinking it's wrong to have sex before marriage. If you truly want to wait until you're married, that's cool. But it isn't wrong to have sex before marriage. Making love makes people closer and more emotional with each other. It helps couples bond. It's an important part of life that people need to experience for them to mature and help them grow as individual human beings. Also, it's important to know that you are sexually compatible with the person that you are going to spend the rest of your life with, because some people actually aren't and it ends the marriage. You wouldn't say that safe-sex and family planning are wrong, would you? I apologize for not having an answer to the question you actually asked, but using the words "it is wrong to have sex outside of marriage" really bugs me.

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