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How do I get past everything?
Ok...I separated from my now ex-husband, almost a year later I met a guy. We instantly clicked, and very well. We could talk for hours and hours every night...literally. well, our relationship continued and was going really well, I fell for him hard, and I was happy. Then, 4 months into our relationship, something horrible happened to me. I was raped. I told him about it, and he really didn't know what to do. He said he hoped it wouldn't affect us, and I hoped the same. A couple of weeks after, he told me it wasn't going to work out bc he would always think of that when we were intimate. I cried, and all that. I still think about him all the time, and that dreadful thing that happened that ruined it all. I wish he could deal with it, but he can't. We both didn't want to lose each other so we decided to stay friends. Well, anyways, he later ended up telling me that it was harder to break up with me than it was to divorce his ex wife, and he was depressed for a long time. He said he thought about trying it again, and wanted to, but he feels that he would always think about what happened to me. But now he has moved on and its really hard for me to deal with. I still wish I was with him, and I know that if that had not happened we would still be. But, my question, willl I ever get over him? I know it was fast to fall so much, but he fell too, and that makes it really hard to just drop it. How do I move on? I don't know if I should try to get him back, continue being just friends when we had so much more than that, or just move on(how?)