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How do I get him interested again?

Published on May 7, 2010 by pookey

I started dating an older man about 10 mnths ago. Six months into the relationship,we found out that a women he had a brief fling with was pregnant and claimed that he was the father. This made him pull away from me and I accepted that he needed space & time to get through this, so I offered my support. Since then, his interest seems to have lessened and after the babay was born, he seems even more distant.

How can I get him to be more open with me and get our relationship back on track. I've asked him if he wants out but he justs ignores my questions or evades the topic.

Am I wasting my time?

Thank you

Annisa

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How old are you and how old is the man? Well, it depends. Was the relationship good??? I'm guessing he's a father for the first time. The thing is that you have to be careful the other woman might be trying to get him to get back with her. She might be using the baby. If you're young wouldnt you rather be with a man that has less complications?

This guy is dealing with new fatherhood and realizing that he has many responsibilities beyond himself. If he is ignoring and evading the topic of you two getting back together than the message is very clear, he no longer wants to date you.

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