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How do I fall in love and stay in love with a nice guy?

Published on March 5, 2010 by mamabear1102

I met this great guy! We have so much in common and I can see us in a happy relationship for many years to come. The problem is....I love sex. I was in a relationship prior to this one with a real jerk, but the sex was awesome. I've not had sex with my new guy yet. I have a fear that it won't be good and I'm afraid it'll change how I feel about him. I don't want to sound selfish. i just want to know how to keep a good man and be happy with him if he's not everything I want and need in the bedroom.


Well, you haven't had sex with him yet so you don't know for sure that you won't enjoy it. Take some time, relax and see where things go. You should definitely wait until you're comfortable/not so worried about it before having it or it will be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Definitely don't compare him to your ex. You shouldn't even be thinking about your ex in a new relationship. Don't think of it as "not as good as my ex" but more like "good or not good." If afterwards it's just not good, you can revisit the issue then.