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How do I do with this situation?
I met him online dating, and we get to know each other about 10 months, we do have sex. After I date him, I don't sign up online dating again. I honest and loyal with him. There are some guys like me, and ask me out, but I never go out with them. I think I must be loyal with him. After first date he texted me that he had physically and emotionally with me. He hoped we could have second date, third date and more. Then he texted to me more often, and write me can call him anytime. He told me that he didn't sign up again on dating site. First we were very happy, but one day my friend told me she saw him go online dating site and change some information. when I asked him, he told me that he just look the pics on the site. He din't sign up again. After several date with him, he less texted and called me. He was busy at work so he didn't have time for me, may be we see each other about 1 month, and the last one nearly 2 months. I send email to him and told that he ignores me, I'll move on, I don't want to waste my time. He answers me that because he is very busy at work. He says sorry and asks me must understand for him. Then I think he is good, doesn't lie to me, I trust him. My friend's sister signs up on that site, she is young and very pretty, he mails to her on that site, and flirts with her. My friend's sister know him, because I show her his pics. She let me know at that night. I'm very sad so I write him I have a nightmare that night. The nightmare is he hurted me and I cried a lot. Early next morning, he texted he sorry about my dream and he loved to see me. I really don't want to see him any more but I answer him I will see him. We met happy, and he seemed nothing happen. I talked about the story but not directly, I talked about my nightmare, maybe he knows. This morning the first time he says he loves me, and he wants to hold me, doesn't want to lose me. When I go home at night, my friend's sister let me know one more thing he send her mail this morning before he went to see me. He says:" I am a very loyal person when I commit to a relationship. I really dread dating, I hate going out on dates. I have in the past, sign up for online dating, looked around and just not had the time to date or desire to date. I have for the past several years been travelling. So I have devoted my free time to that. Now I would like to find someone, as I am kind of lonely." When I read that my heart is broken, and I don't want to see him anymore. Then my friend's sister send him mail ask him " You say that you are a very loyal person, tell me the truth are you dating someone now?" He didn't reply about 3 days, I think maybe he knows something wrong with him.
Please give me your good advice, and don't show this mail to the public
Thank you very much