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How do I deal with my boyfriend's small penis?
I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years with plans on getting married. I love him very much and at this point I can't imagine my life without him. He is pretty much perfect in every way except that he has a small penis. I try not to make a big deal out of it, I try to make the sex work and try to convince myself that it is all in my head but when we get down to it, I just can't get passed it. He is so small that I need to build up a lot of friction in order to feel any sort of pleasure and all that does is cause me to chafe and feel irritated after sex.
This is becoming frustrating on both accounts because I haven't had the heart to tell him and he just thinks that I have no sexual drive. Which is a big lie because I often masturbate on my own and fantasize about having sex with men with larger penises.
How can I work this out with him? I don't want to break up with him and I hate to consider myself this shallow to base a relationship with a great guy on the size of his penis.
I need advice. Should I tell him and risk hurting his feelings, if so, how do I go about doing that? Or do I keep it to myself and convince myself that it's all in my head and I just have to get used to it?