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How do I deal with my boyfriend's small penis?

Published on January 27, 2011 by cake21

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years with plans on getting married. I love him very much and at this point I can't imagine my life without him. He is pretty much perfect in every way except that he has a small penis. I try not to make a big deal out of it, I try to make the sex work and try to convince myself that it is all in my head but when we get down to it, I just can't get passed it. He is so small that I need to build up a lot of friction in order to feel any sort of pleasure and all that does is cause me to chafe and feel irritated after sex.

This is becoming frustrating on both accounts because I haven't had the heart to tell him and he just thinks that I have no sexual drive. Which is a big lie because I often masturbate on my own and fantasize about having sex with men with larger penises.

How can I work this out with him? I don't want to break up with him and I hate to consider myself this shallow to base a relationship with a great guy on the size of his penis.

I need advice. Should I tell him and risk hurting his feelings, if so, how do I go about doing that? Or do I keep it to myself and convince myself that it's all in my head and I just have to get used to it? 


don't tell him he has a small penis, you will hurt his ego, and trust me, he will get offended. (don't say how huge it is either, because he will know that you are lying him). this is not something he can change. instead, try to find at least one thing he does in bed with you that you love, and tell him how much you enjoy it. try experimenting with new poses too. you will find some which are better for a small penis. consider oral sex as well as using a sex toy, which will give pleasure to both. but never ever comment on the size of his penis.

u should tell him. cause if he not hitting it rite then u should still keep him cause u love him but have someone on the side that can beat it up how you like it.

It sounds to me like his small penis might be something you'll never get over. Perhaps I'm wrong. Perhaps you can work out some techniques that favor a man with a small penis. But... it would be better not to start a marriage with you fantasizing about other, more endowed, guys.